Comments for Intentional Parents

Comment on A Lifetime Love of Learning by katie

katie — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 02:51:16 +0000

Thank you so much for such a well thought out description of why to homeschool. We are just beginning this journey and to have some answers of why is helpful.

Comment on Blue Hat, Green Hat = Experience Sharing by Niffercoo

Niffercoo — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 03:19:58 +0000

I’m going to look for this book at the library! I’ve been a big fan of Boynton for years! I bet Reece and I will love this book! ~Jennifer

Comment on Church and Home Bible Teaching by Rebecca Smith

Rebecca Smith — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 18:12:52 +0000

Thank you for putting the convictions that has been on my heart for years into words! I have struggled with the modern day American church’s goal to divide the family rather than unite it. I long to find a church family that is understanding of my husband and I’s committment to worship together as a family. We will keep praying! Blessing to you!

Comment on Church and Home Bible Teaching by Sonya

Sonya — Sat, 31 May 2008 18:54:11 +0000

Hi, Nili -

We try to remain connected as much as we can, participating in those activities that do encourage age-integration and support our spiritual goals for our family. We try to cultivate family-to-family friendships and one-on-one relationships that give us opportunities to show that we’re not disgruntled or judgmental. We try to encourage other parents as much as possible, focusing on what we have in common rather than differences of conviction.

Interestingly, it’s been our experience that most people don’t ask Why. Of the small percentage that do ask, only a handful really want to understand our reasoning. Most are just mildly curious and want a quick answer. So when someone asks, “Why don’t your kids go to Sunday School?” a short reply like, “We teach them at home instead” usually satisfies them. Those who really want to understand where we’re coming from will use that answer as an opportunity to discuss further.

Comment on Church and Home Bible Teaching by Nili

Nili — Mon, 26 May 2008 14:47:44 +0000

I have felt this way for a while and I feel you articulated it beautifully. How have you handled people’s reactions or questions? I struggle with not wanting people to feel judged by my decisions. If that makes sense.

I have enjoyed your website.

God Bless,
Nili

Comment on Penny’s Coffee Maker by Lynnette

Lynnette — Sun, 25 May 2008 02:12:04 +0000

Thanks for this post. It cracked me up! I loved the “Esc key” part! (When in doubt press escape!)

Comment on Smooth and Easy Days by One At a Time - Intentional Parents

One At a Time - Intentional Parents — Tue, 20 May 2008 01:16:07 +0000

[...] same principle applies to forming new habits — whether in yourself or in your children. Sometimes it can seem overwhelming to think about [...]

Comment on A Great Scripture Memory System by One At a Time - Intentional Parents

One At a Time - Intentional Parents — Tue, 20 May 2008 01:15:52 +0000

[...] you like the idea of the Scripture Memory System, and the idea of the three levels of Bible study, plus the idea of encouraging creativity, oh! and [...]

Comment on Discipline 101 by Sonya

Sonya — Thu, 15 May 2008 20:40:24 +0000

Hi, Lisa -

In my opinion, he’s just being a needy infant. I don’t think a baby is likely to comprehend “No” at this age. My general guideline has been that when a baby is nine months old, he or she is old enough to understand and respond to “No.”

Comment on Discipline 101 by Lisa

Lisa — Thu, 15 May 2008 04:06:18 +0000

Hi. I have question about my 3 month old baby boy. It seems that our son is quite demanding in ways; doesn’t just cry for food when it’s time to eat but screams, kicks and flails. His mood can change from happy, giggly and baby talk to annoyance / anger / crying. I am wondering if we need to start to disciplining him, like saying a gentle but firm NO to things he may do. At this age, is he at all likely to comprehend what we are trying to communicate to him? He basically has us at his beck and call 24/7 and I’m torn between the idea how a tiny infant can’t manipulate but is just needy and when he is being demanding because we come running. I would appreciate your advice.